The beginning of any romantic relationship is the initiation of a new phase in your life as well as your boyfriend’s life. This is a very exciting phase that is crucial for the future of every relationship. Both of you do not know each other very well. Hence getting to know each other better is usually the main goal at this point of time. But there are many other things that must be considered along with trying to get to know him better. With time the needs and goals of a relationship change.
It is important for you to play your part and make sure that the changes that occur are for the betterment of the both of you. Making him want you forever is not easy. Men are fundamentally different from women. The qualities that endear him to you may not be the same for him. This implies that the desires and wants of men from a relationship are different from yours. You might be doing something to impress him or to make him love you but he might conclude different implications which are not intended by you.
So, until and unless he starts loving you for who you are it is very important that you play your cards in a logical and smart way. The beginning of a new relationship can be very confusing at so many levels. His wants, desires and nature is not something you understand very well at this phase of your relationship. Taking advice from your friends and family in this regard can be beneficial to you and for your relationship. Being aware of how to behave and talk so as to make the best possible impressions is important.
This doesn’t mean you have to be fake or be unnatural. It just means that you have to be reserved to a certain extent. Understand that you are not yet the center of his universe no matter how much you want to be. It takes time for a man to realize the importance of the right woman. Men, you see, are not as understanding of their own expectations as women are. Initially, it is all fun and games for them. Men realize and understand the truest implications of any relationship at a much later stage.
You must not change any of your everyday routines simply to spend more time talking to them or trying to meet them. Men perceive this show of affection as desperation. This can be a huge turnoff for them and hence you must avoid showing too much care too early in a relationship. Respond to their calls and texts without calling or texting them too often. Playing a little aloof might benefit your chances. Let him ask you out to a date. If you are to ask him out first it might be perceived as desperation as well.
Remember that beauty and appearance are very important to men. So when you go out on a date make sure that you are at the peak of your prowess.